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Does anyone have any suggestions on how I can make her understand, or should I just walk away. Maybe you don't find what she is exposing attractive and feel like she is embarrassing herself. Then she chose not to actually wear them, and then when I had the audacity to actually be bothered by these facts and have a thought, snap on me.

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I am not afraid that some guy is going to see her chest and try to run off with her. She did not do this because of a fight or argument. A couple of weeks ago, she bought another of those shirts and when she came home from work, I noticed it wasn't hiding anything. Regardless, I think you can deal with this issue in at least two different ways: 1 Recognize why you are uncomfortable and resolve it. Problem solved. They visited, and my wife asked me to frame a few pictures of their visit.

I have been mulling all of this over in my head for a few days and yesterday she asked me what was on my mind. I know that she is entitled to live her life however she sees fit. It got so bad that I told her I wanted a divorce, and though I do not and don't know why the h3ll I said it, I did.

She still wears the shirts, but no effort to wear the fabric. However, the few times we have had a major hurdle, I have conceded and found a way to cope with whatever that hurdle was- usually because I accepted that I am reacting badly to something, not the other way around. I apologized to her for my reaction to her reaction, however I told her I could not apologize for my feelings.

It is very clear to me, however, that she still does not understand where I am coming from and will not as she sees this as my problem, not hers.

I can't just up and move across the country without her support. She finally got it and found a way to compromise. Its also likely, though, that she thinks you are just being over-protective. We talked for a while and though the hurt is going to be there for a while I am sure, I think the result of the argument will pass.

She stormed off to work and when she came home, she tried to act as if everything was normal. However, she knows this bothers me, she knows that when she bought those clip on things that it made me happy. I know it is wrong to try to dictate her life to her. From what you describe it's not entirely clear what is being revealed or the context it's being revealed in.

However, with many of the shirts she wears recently, all she need do is bend over slightly, or move her arm a certain way, and there is nothing left to wonder, you can see everything.

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Then leave it up to her. I work on this daily and I talk to my wife whenever I have a problem with something. Log in. My point? We parked those rights at the door when we go married. I'd suggest that you take a step back and make sure that she is really revealing too much, and if so, just be descriptive of what is actually revealed in reasonable situations. Only, she has not once worn one of those fabrics since. I try to be very open and honest with my wife and talk to her about my feelings.

ed Jun 6, Let her choose the clothes she wants to wear If it makes her feel sexy then let her do it and reap the rewards.

They were more focused on the clothes. I let her know how I feel and I absolutely do not try to dictate her life. Maybe you grew up in a less free culture and associate her exposure with negative concepts. ed Oct 11, My wife is very small chested and she wears a bra to try to hide this fact.

I can't help feeling that I am the one being told, do it my way or it is the highway.

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Maybe you feel like she is just doing this to draw inappropriate attention from men. She of course reacted badly and we had a fight like we have not had in years.

What did the two of you intend for your marriage boundaries to include? ed Aug 1, What exactly is it that bothers you about her revealing her body like this? ed Jul 6, Lon said:. Jump to Latest Follow. This argument had a very bad impact on me and I have not been able to get it out of my head.

Let's just leave it at saying that nothing is left to the imagination. For example, saying that "I know she has a right to live her life the way she chooses," doesn't work in my marriage, for either one of us. Late last week, she again wore one of the shirts without the fabric, and when she was ready to leave for work, she came into the living room where I was drinking a cup of coffee and though I did not say a word, because a look apparently flashed across my face, she snapped on me. She did it because she finally understood that it hurt me that she continued to wear the style shirts that she has been wearing.

ed Feb 20, So much of this depends, in my opinion, on what the two of you intended for the purpose of your marraige to be.

She did not do this at my request or because she had to. I was elated!!!! If she knows that too much is revealed, and is okay with it anyway, then that tells you a lot. She kept pushing me and got angry, and knowing me the way she does, pushed all of the right buttons and I unloaded on her. If its summer, even downstairs, considering that I never knew that those things could legally be called panties if they don't cover My wife said that it was her right to dress how she wanted.

An 8 X 10 boob shot did the trick. I did not say anything to her, however, she caught my look and the next day, when she came home from work, she showed some kind of fabric that is deed to clip to her bra strap and act like a t-shirt that she bought while on her lunch break. We both agreed not to intentionally offend each other. Status Not open for further replies. My wife's sister sounds just like your wife.

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I told her how she made me feel by continually discounting my feelings and on and on. It sounds like just her bra is exposed? We had an argument and she accused me of trying to tell her how to dress, of not trusting her, etc.

I know I have issues, however I try to be honest and open with myself and my wife, no matter how painful, so that we are not hurt by jealousy, insecurity, or any other issues. I have issues with this and have tried to talk to her about it repeatedly. Guess which ones I printed out? Every time I try to talk to her about this, she reacts badly and says things like, "I could understand your being upset if I had anything to show" or "I don't like feeling like I am being told what to wear.

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May be that you see her in situations that would never even occur at work, anyway. She's small upstairs, and reveals more than some people are comfortable with. It had been a few days, but I was still angry and hurt and did not feel like I could talk to her right then, I need more time to sort out my thoughts so I could be rational and make sense. However, I can not and will not continue this way. I can't stop thinking that now I am the one being controlled.

I love my wife and we have children. I do not feel that my wife has been unfaithful and do not feel she will be. I don't think my wife, or her sis even realized what was being revealed.